抖音怎么合拍【父母与你合拍吗?】
时间：2020-02-23 07:16:41 来源：雅意学习网 本文已影响 人 
你的父母身体里好像装有声波定位仪一般，你的一举一动都难逃他们的“法眼”？还是他们对你好像完全漠不关心，十足的模范“三不”父母：不过问成绩，不追问行踪，不了解日常交际和喜好？又或者他们费尽心思想和你成为无话不说的知心朋友，全然不顾你真正需要的是和自己年龄相仿、志趣相投的朋友？做做下面这个小测试，看看你的父母属于哪一种类型吧。
1. After a Saturday night blowout1) with your friends, you come home with your hair and clothes smelling like five packs of cigarettes. Your parents ...
A. ask you straight up if you"ve been smoking. When you say, "No way!" they remind you, as usual, that even being around smoke isn"t healthy.
B. laugh and say, "Phew2)! Must have been a wild one!"
C. are totally exhausted3) and don"t notice.
2. Shock of all shocks, you got a pretty lame4) report card this quarter. After your parents give it the once-over5), they ...
A. sit down and calmly ask why you think your grades aren"t up to par6). Then they try to figure out some ways to help you out7).
B. casually ask you to set the table for dinner.
C. say, "Oh, everybody has ups and downs8) in school. No biggie9)! You"ll do better next time, right?"
3. One of your very best friends Heather calls while you"re out at the mall. When you get home, your dad says ...
A. "Heather called and wants you to call her back."
B. "Heather called, and she sounded awful! You should probably get her on the line right away to find out what"s wrong!"
C. "Some girl named Heather called."
4. At breakfast before school, your parents notice that you"re wearing a pair of super low-rise10) jeans that barely hit your hipbone11). Your mom ...
A. asks if she can borrow them.
B. tells you they"re not appropriate for school and to throw on something else―now.
C. says, "Cute!" and continues buttering her muffin.
5. You ask your parents for permission to go to a party at a friend of a friend of a friend"s house. Your mom says ...
A. "Sure, but you"ve gotta give me all the details!"
B. "Go ahead, dear, and have a nice time."
C. "Of course, you can go―if you tell me exactly where it is located, who is giving the party and a phone number where I can reach you."
6. You get in trouble at school for yapping12) with your friends during an exam. When the principal calls and tells your parents about the incident, your dad says ...
A. "Well, she"s very popular. Everyone wants to talk to her. How about letting it slide13) this time?"
B. "Thank you so much for letting us know. We"ll have to have a little chat with her about it this evening."
C. "Oh, she"d never do that! I"m sure this is some sort of case of mistaken identity or something."
7. You"re invited to a party where you know they"re gonna be playing several rounds of Spin the Bottle14), and you"re totally uncomfortable with it. You ask your mom what she thinks you should do and she says ...
A. "Oh, have fun! "
B. "If you don"t feel comfortable, just don"t play the game or don"t go to the party."
C. "Oh, that reminds me―the recycling needs to go out to the curb15) tonight."
7~11分：无所不知型父母
看来你的父母对你的了解已经到了有点可怕的程度，尤其当你不想让他们知道某些事情的时候。但是总体来说，有一对如此关心你的父母很棒，更何况他们知道何时该给予你指导，何时该让你自己拿主意。那么，你该如何把这种相互尊重的关系一直愉快地维持下去呢？保持开放的心态！遇到任何涉及安全、道德与价值观、健康和幸福这类事情时，多与父母沟通。至于其他事情，像你父母这样的家长真的不想也无需知道。不是因为他们不关心，而是因为他们希望你变得更加独立，也相信你能够作出明智的决定！
12~16分：一无所知型父母
啊！看来你的父母基本不知道你的情况。他们不知道你最好的朋友是谁，不了解你最迷的动漫为何物，不清楚你最喜欢的科目是什么。但是，不要灰心，他们很有可能只是因为不堪生活的重负，比如工作、经济状况甚至是对家庭所承担的责任。你应该主动多和他们聊天，告诉他们你非常爱他们，真的很想与他们更亲近。他们很可能会抽出时间来，因为父母最抵抗不了子女的爱。但如果情况恰好相反，他们让你现在不要烦他们，也不要太过在意。当事情都安顿好后，他们自然会来陪你。在那一刻到来之前，多找机会跟他们聊天，告诉他们你现在的情况。慢慢地，他们将更了解你，你们的关系也会更为亲密！
17~21分：过于亲密型父母
表面看来，你的父母太棒了，很难说他们有任何不好的地方。他们真的对你所做的一切都很感兴趣，并努力不拖你的后腿，也不会对你待人接物的方式评头论足。但是，你的父母似乎进驻到了你生活的方方面面，忘记了你也需要成长的空间，偶尔甚至会令你感到窒息。找个机会跟他们谈谈吧！首先告诉他们你爱他们，也非常感谢他们对你生活的关心。然后向他们解释，即便你很享受和感谢他们的关心，你仍然需要一些自由的空间，这样你才能拥有自己的生活。只要用正确的方式多多沟通，相信父母一定会满足你的需求的。
RATE-A-PARENT! 给父母打分！
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2. A) 1 B) 2 C) 3
3. A) 1 B) 3 C) 2
4. A) 3 B) 1 C) 2
5. A) 3 B) 2 C) 1
6. A) 3 B) 1 C) 2
7. A) 3 B) 1 C) 2
1. blowout [ˈbləʊaʊt] n. 盛宴；美餐
2. phew [fjuː] int. [表示厌恶、不安、烦躁、惊讶、疲倦、松一口气等] 咳，唷，哦
3. exhausted [ɪ�ˈzɔːstɪd] adj. 极其疲惫的，精疲力竭的
4. lame [leɪm] adj. 站不住脚的；差劲的
5. once-over [ˈwʌnsˌəʊvə(r)] n. 草草过目(或检查)
6. up to par: 达到一般水平(或标准)的
7. help sb. out: 帮助某人摆脱困境(或解决问题)
8. ups and downs: 成功和失败；起起落落
9. biggie [ˈbɪ�i] n. 重要的事
10. low-rise [ˈləʊˈraɪz] adj. (裤子)短裆紧身的
11. hipbone [ˈhɪpbəʊn] n. 【解】髋骨；髂骨；股骨上部
12. yap [jæp] vi. 哇啦哇啦说话；瞎扯；闲聊
13. let sth. slide: 放任某事，对某事听其自然
14. Spin the Bottle: 转瓶选择接吻对象游戏。它通常是朋友聚会时玩的游戏，所有参与者围成一圈，一个人转动瓶子，亲吻瓶口指向的那个人，然后被吻的人继续转动瓶子，亲吻下一个被瓶口指向的人，如此一直继续下去。
15. curb [kɜːb] n. (由路缘石砌成的街道或人行道的)路缘
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